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The Year of Grief
Abu Talib’s Death:
In Rajab, the tenth year of
the Prophethood, Abu Talib fell ill and passed away, six months after leaving
the confinement at Ash-Sh‘ib. In another version, Abu Talib breathed his last
in Ramadan, three days prior to the death of Khadijah (RA).
On the authority of Al-Musaiyab, when Abu Talib was on the death bed, the
Prophet
entered the room where he saw Abu Jahl
and ‘Abdullah bin Abi Omaiyah. He requested his uncle: "My
uncle, you just make a profession that there is no true god but Allâh, and I
will bear testimony before Allâh (of your being a believer)".
Abu Jahl and ‘Abdullah bin
Abi Omaiyah addressing him said: "Abu Talib, would you abandon the religion
of ‘Abdul-Muttalib?" The Messenger of Allâh
constantly requested him (to accept his offer), and (on the other hand)
was repeated the same statement (of Abu Jahl and ‘Abdullah bin Abi Omaiyah)
— till Abu Talib gave his final decision and he stuck to the religion of
‘Abdul-Muttalib and refused to profess that there is no true god but Allâh.
Upon this the Messenger of Allâh
remarked:
"By Allâh, I will
persistently beg pardon for you till I am forbidden to do so (by Allâh)".
It was then that Allâh, the
Magnificent and Glorious revealed this verse:
"It is not (proper) for
the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allâh’s forgiveness for the Mushrikűn
(polytheists, idolaters, pagans, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allâh) even
though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the
dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief)." [9:113]
And it was said to the
Messenger of Allâh
: "Verily!
You (O Muhammad
) guide not whom you
like." [28:56][]
It goes without saying that Abu
Talib was very much attached to Muhammad
. For
forty years, Abu Talib had been the faithful friend — the prop of his
childhood, the guardian of his youth and in later life a very tower of defense.
The sacrifices to which Abu Talib exposed himself and his family for the sake of
his nephew, while yet incredulous of his mission, stamp his character as
singularly noble and unselfish. The Prophet
did his best to persuade his octogenarian uncle to make profession of the true
faith, but he remained obdurate and stuck to the paganism of his forefathers,
and thus could not achieve complete success. Al-‘Abbas bin ‘Abdul-Muttalib
narrated that he said to the Prophet
"You
have not been of any avail to your uncle (Abu Talib) (though) by Allâh, he used
to protect you and get angry on your behalf." The Prophet
said: "He is in a shallow fire, and had it not been for
me, he would have been at the bottom of the (Hell) Fire."
Abu Sa‘id Al-Khudri narrated
that he heard the Prophet
say, when the
mention of his uncle was made, "I hope that my intercession may avail him,
and he be placed in a shallow fire that rises up only to his heels."
Khadijah passes away to the
Mercy of Allâah:
Only two months after the death
of his uncle, did the Messenger of Allâh
experience another great personal loss viz., the Mother of believers, his wife
Khadijah passed away in Ramadan of the tenth year of his Prophethood, when she
was sixty-five years old, and he was fifty[]. Khadijah was in fact a blessing of
Allâh for the Prophet
. She, for twenty-five
years, shared with him the toils and trials of life, especially in the first ten
years of his ministry of Prophethood. He deeply mourned over her death, and once
he replied in an honest burst of tender emotions: "She
believed in me when none else did. She embraced Islam when people disbelieved
me. And she helped and comforted me in her person and wealth when there was none
else to lend me a helping hand. I had children from her only."
Abu Hurairah reported that
Gabriel came to Allâh’s Messenger
and said:
"Allâh’s Messenger, lo, Khadijah is coming to you with a vessel of
seasoned food or drink. When she comes to you, offer her greetings from her
Lord, and give her glad tidings of a palace of jewels in Paradise where there is
no noise and no toil."
These two painful events took
place within a short lapse of time and added a lot to his grief and suffering.
The Makkans now openly declared their campaign of torture and oppression. The
Prophet
lost all hope of bringing them back to
the right path, so he set out for Al-Ta’if seeking a supportive atmosphere.
But there too, he was disappointed and he sustained unbearable tortures and
maltreatment that far outweighed his miserable situation in his native town.
His Companions were on equal
footing subjected to unspeakable torture and unbearable oppression to such an
extent that his closest friend, Abu Bakr, to escape pressure, fled out of Makkah
and wanted to leave for Abyssinia (Ethiopia) if it were not for Ibn Ad-Daghanah
who met him at Bark Al-Ghamad and managed to dissuade him from completing his
journey of escape and brought him back under his protection.
The death of Abu Talib rendered
the Prophet
vulnerable, and the polytheists
availed them of that opportunity to give free rein to their hatred and
highhandedness and to translate them in terms of oppression and physical
tortures. Once an insolent Quraishite intercepted him and sprinkled sand on his
head. When he arrived home, a daughter of his washed the sand away and wept.
"Do not weep, my daughter. Allâh will verily protect your father."
The Prophet
said.
Rapid succession of
misfortunes, led the Prophet
to call that
period, ‘the year of grief and mourning’. Thenceforth, that year bore that
appellation.
His Marriage to Sawdah (RA) in Shawwal, the tenth year of Prophethood:
The Death of Khadijah left the
Prophet
lonely. The name of Sawdah was
suggested to him for marriage which he accepted. This lady had suffered many
hardships for the sake of Islam. She was an early convert to the Islamic Faith
and it was by her persuasion that her husband had embraced Islam. On the second
emigration to Abyssinia (Ethiopia), Sawdah had accompanied her husband As-Sakran
bin ‘Amr. He died on their way back to Makkah leaving her in a terrible state
of destitution. She was the first woman for the Prophet
to marry after the death of Khadijah. Some years later she granted her
turn with the Prophet
to her co-wife,
‘Aishah(RA). |